Her by Pamela Ballard

When She speaks everyone listens. She commands respect and discipline. She also listens to understand so she can make sound judgments. She owns knowledge,morals, and common sense. She covets for nothing as she has the power to have anything she desires. She is justifiable and teachable. She covers you with protection. The person who has her has favor with God! She can lead man to success, riches, and honor. She can cause man to be loving and faithful. She is the opposite of immoral, hate,arrogance and pride. She trusts not the man but the God in him and puts God first. You can have all the money in the world but without her you will not have much. I am Her..she is I... She is wisdom

It..by Pamela Ballard

When you question it,you block it. Just accept it and let it flow. Water it and watch it grow. Reap from it as you sow. Gleam from it as it glows. Glean from it as you come to know. Part with it when its time to go. Hold on to it before its out the dó... It can be an idea, person, goal, etc. Is there something or someone you are blocking in your life that could be a line connecting a dot? Or that could be the factor you are leaving out of the equation because it doesn't add up to you? It doesn't make sense or maybe its too good to be true? Stop running from it truly and see what happens.. Listen with your heart not your mind this one time.

Women Over 40 or Close To It

In case you missed it on 60 Minutes, this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40: As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask,'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40,there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage.Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!

What Are You Building?

This was too good to keep to myself.... "A tired carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer of his plans to retire and leave the house-building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife and family.The contractor was sorry to see his experienced worker go and asked ifhe could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenterreluctantly said "yes", but his heart was not in his work. He rushed and used inferior materials. When the carpenter finished his work the employer came to inspect thehouse. He handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your house," hesaid, "my gift to you." The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he wasbuilding his own house, he would have done it all so differently. So it is with us. We build our lives, a day at a time, often putting less than our best into the building. If we could do it over, we'd do it much differently. But we cannot go back. You are a carpenter. What are you building? Each day you hammer a nail, add a room or paint a wall. "Life is a do-it-yourself project,"Your attitude and the choices you make today, build the "house" you live in tomorrow. Build wisely! Don't be mediocre in the way you love and serve others. Love smart with your heart and don't settle for less, mess and stress in your relationships. Build a life of peace, love, harmony, joy, faith,and excellence. Be above average in your work performance, the way you dress, speak, pray and play. Strive for quality instead of seeking short cuts and below average living. Grow wise in your habits,emotions, spending and health choices. Walk, talk, live and love at your best whether someone sees you or not. Let your light shine bright in ALL that you do. Polish up your image and your living space. Don't compromise your character. Sow cheap, reap cheap. Sow quality, reap quality. Do your best whether or not you get credit and recognition.God sees your sincere efforts and hears your prayers. BUILD righteouslyand be blessed beyond your wildest dreams." by Jewel Diamond Taylor